Hello, men! It’s already 2020, and if you’re single (and looking to change that), you should start by figuring just what girls are looking for in a guy. Of course, while the ultimate Ideal Guy changes from one woman to the next, there are some personality traits that are widely popular among girls. Check out these most-wanted character traits below.
The Ideal Guy is confident
Let’s get this straight from the get-go—being confident is completely different from being cocky (a.k.a. mayabang). This means having the kind of confidence that goes beyond looks. A man who is confident in his abilities and personality is more likely to attract women because he is able to make himself and his lady feel secure.
He has an amazing sense of humor
Everybody enjoys a good laugh, but a dude who can easily elicit a grin or a chuckle from the opposite sex already gets pogi points. Of course, not everyone will find you funny. But if you can make the girl you like snort, solb ka na.
He knows how to show R-E-S-P-E-C-T
The Ideal Guy is a man who has integrity—someone who does the right thing, even if no one sees or knows that he did. A huge part of this is showing respect for the opposite sex (even in the locker room). In this male-dominated society, it’s difficult for women to find a guy who can fight ingrained patriarchal attitudes and keep up with the progressive, more feminist ideals of the modern world. So once a woman finds that guy who knows how to respect her, her family, and her friends, she won’t let go.
The Ideal Guy knows that honesty is always the best policy
This item actually encompasses a lot of other traits, including trust, loyalty, faithfulness, and vulnerability. The Ideal Guy knows that it’s best to tell the truth because this helps a lady trust her man more. Honesty lets a woman rest easy in the knowledge that her man would stay loyal and faithful. Honesty also lets a woman see that her man is willing to open up and be vulnerable in front of her, fostering a healthier, more understanding relationship.
The Ideal Guy has great communication skills
Even though women are said to be intuitive by nature, newsflash: they can’t actually read minds. This is why communication skills are a must. Learn how to open up and speak up because even if you try your best to be honest, a relationship won’t last if you can’t communicate your thoughts and feelings clearly. Communication truly is key.
He knows how to give TLC
Women love being showered with love and affection, so the Ideal Guy is someone who can easily demonstrate how much he cares for his partner. If a woman finds a caring man to be her lover, she’s sure to keep him because she knows he’ll be there for her whenever she needs him the most.
But what exactly does self-awareness mean?
Self-awareness is essentially the ability to look inside yourself and understand who you are, what you’re doing, and why you’re doing it. Because they’re so in tune with themselves, people who have high self-awareness can better empathize with their partner’s thoughts and feelings, which is why it’s such an important trait.
The Ideal Guy knows how to take care of himself
How can a guy take care of his partner otherwise? So remember: there’s no shame in having a self-care day for work-life balance, taking care of your hygiene, and taking the time to look great whenever, wherever. In fact, that just shows self-respect!
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